'Death ends a life, but it does not end a relationship.'
Robert Anderson

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  • 'This is about Me and You'

    A workbook specially written to help communicate difficult information to children when a parent or prime carer is terminally ill and not expected to live. Supportive communication when a parent does not have long to live is invaluable.

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  • Guide to using 'This is about Me and You'

    Designed to be used by you and your child, working together we recommend that the workbook guide for This is about Me and You is read by the adult before using the work book .Some families have decided to use a few pages at a time

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  • 'My book about our baby who died'

    An interactive workbook for use by a parent or prime carer of young children from the age of 4. The child would only use the workbook with an adult to draw and write about themselves, their family and friends and about the baby brother or sister who

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  • Children's book 'What does Dead Mean?'

    A book for young children to explain death and dying by Jenni Thomas and Caroline Jay. Illustrated by Unity-Joy Dale. Jessica Kingsley Publishers

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For both books, each child in the family should have an opportunity to have a book of their own to keep their memories.


A short film about the book 'What does Dead Mean?'
Available here from Jessica Kingsley Publishers


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